"An Educator's Journey Through Social Development"
We are always comparing; from our very childhood we are taught comparison. Somebody else’s child is cuter, more beautiful and more intelligent; somebody else’s child is more obedient, and you are not.
At Erikson’s psychosocial stage four,
children mature and their level of self-awareness increases. They understand
logical reasoning, scientific facts, and other matters that are typically
taught in school.
We are always comparing; from our very childhood we are taught comparison. Somebody else’s child is cuter, more beautiful and more intelligent; somebody else’s child is more obedient, and you are not.
All educational systems depend on comparison: somebody comes first, and
somebody is the last in the class; somebody passes, somebody fails. Teachers
appreciate students who are obedient; they hate students, they punish students
who are not obedient in every way.
The whole structure of society is continuously comparing, and the very idea of
comparison is absolutely false.
Each individual is unique because there is nobody else like him. Comparison
would have been right if all individuals were alike; they are not. Even twins
are not absolutely alike; it is impossible to find another man who is exactly
like you. So, we are comparing unique people — which creates the whole trouble.
Every person has his or her own unique identity. This identity is
composed of the different personality traits that can be considered positive or
negative. These personality traits can also be innate or acquired, and they
vary from one person to another based on the degree of influence that the
environment has on the individual. Everybody has some uniqueness. Education
should be organised in such a way that that uniqueness comes over, and becomes
an actuality.
Erik Erikson’s Theory of Psychosocial Development emphasizes the sociocultural
determinants of development and presents them as eight stages of psychosocial
conflicts (often known as Erikson’s stages of psychosocial development) that
all individuals must overcome or resolve successfully in order to adjust well
to the environment.
According to Erik Erikson’s theory, we all encounter a certain crisis
that contributes to our psychosocial growth at each of Erikson’s stages of
psychosocial development. Whenever we experience such crisis, we are left with
no choice but to face it and think of ways to resolve it. Failure to overcome
such crisis may lead to significant impact on our psychosocial development.
Stage One – Trust vs Mistrust
The first stage, infancy or the oral-sensory stage is approximately the
first year or year and a half of life. The task is to develop trust without
completely eliminating the capacity for mistrust.
This first stage of the Erikson stages starts from infant to about 18
months. At this stage, infants must learn how to trust others, particularly
those who care for their basic needs. They should feel that they are being
cared for and that all their needs are met.
Small babies are new to this world and may view the outside world as
threatening. Depending on how they are treated by people around them, the sense
of threat can be replaced by trust. When this happens, they gain a sense of
security and begin to learn to trust people around them.
The first and most important person to teach an infant about trust is
usually the parents. Parents are expected to take good care of their children
and attend to their needs. For example, the parents of a baby provide him with
food, shelter, sustenance and make him feel very comfortable and secure.
Stage Two – Autonomy vs Shame and Doubt
The second stage is the anal-muscular stage of early childhood, from
about eighteen months to three or four years old. The task is to achieve a
degree of autonomy while minimizing shame and doubt.
At stage two of the Erikson stages, children should be taught the basic
ways of taking care of themselves, including changing their clothes and feeding
themselves. If a child can’t take care of his own basic needs and continue to
rely on others to take care of him, he may feel shameful when he sees that
other kids of his own age are able to perform tasks such as feeding themselves.
Stage Three – Initiative vs Guilt
Stage three is the genital-locomotor stage or play age. From three or
four to five or six, the task confronting every child is to learn initiative
without too much guilt.
As children continue to grow up, they like to explore and do things on
their own. At stage three of the Erikson stages, children can learn new
concepts introduced in school and are expected to practice these lessons in
real life. They know that they can accomplish these tasks on their own, but if
they fail to do so and end up asking for assistance from others, they may feel
a sense of guilt.
Stage Four – Industry vs Inferiority
Stage four is the latency stage, or the school-age child from about six
to twelve. The task is to develop a capacity for industry while avoiding an
excessive sense of inferiority. Children must "tame the imagination"
and dedicate themselves to education and to learning the social skills their
society requires of them.
Children also become more competitive during this Erikson stage of
development. They want to do things that other children of the same age can do.
When they make the effort to perform a task and succeed, they develop
self-confidence. However, if they fail, they tend to feel that they are
inferior to others.
Stage Five – Identity vs Role Confusion
Stage five is adolescence, beginning with puberty and ending around 18
or 20 years old. The task during adolescence is to achieve ego identity and
avoid role confusion. It was adolescence that interested Erikson first and
most, and the patterns he saw here were the bases for his thinking about all
the other stages.
During adolescence, young people are expected to develop their sexual
identity. This is gained through the discovery of oneself and in the course of
finding meaning to their personhood. They may also experience identity crisis
as a result of the transition from childhood to adulthood.
Some adolescents may feel confused and are unsure whether an activity is
age-appropriate for them. Crisis at this stage may also be brought about by
expectations from themselves and from people around them, e.g. their parents.
Stage Six – Intimacy vs Isolation
If you have made it this far, you are in the stage of young adulthood,
which lasts from about 18 to about 30. The ages in the adult stages are much
fuzzier than in the childhood stages, and people may differ dramatically. The
task is to achieve some degree of intimacy, as opposed to remaining in isolation.
Stage six of the Erikson stages is very apparent for young adults who
are in their 30s. People at this stage become worried about finding the right
partner and fear that if they fail to do so, they may have to spend the rest of
their lives alone.
Young adults are most vulnerable to feel intimacy and loneliness because
they interact with a lot of people in this phase of their lives. It’s not
always a success story for every young adult to find someone with whom they can
share a lifelong commitment. Some may choose to spend the rest of their lives
as singles.
Stage Seven – Generativity versus Stagnation
The seventh stage is that of middle adulthood. It is hard to pin a time
to it, but it would include the period during which we are actively involved in
raising children. For most people in our society, this would put it somewhere
between the middle twenties and the late fifties. The task here is to cultivate
the proper balance of generativity and stagnation.
Adults who are in their 40s and 50s tend to find meaning in their work.
They feel like at this point in their lives, they should be able to contribute
something meaningful to the society and leave a legacy. If they fail to achieve
this, they feel like they have been an unproductive member of the society.
Stage Eight – Ego Integrity vs Despair
This last stage, referred to delicately as late adulthood or maturity,
or less delicately as old age, begins sometime around retirement, after the
kids have gone, say somewhere around 60. Some older folks will protest and say
it only starts when you feel old and so on, but that's an effect of our
youth-worshipping culture, which has even old people avoiding any
acknowledgement of age. In Erikson's theory, reaching this stage is a good
thing, and not reaching it suggests that earlier problems retarded your
development!
At the last stage of the Erikson stages, people are in their 60s or
older who are typically retirees. It is important for them to feel a sense of
fulfillment knowing that they have done something significant during their
younger years. When they look back in their life, they feel content, as they
believe that they have lived their life to the fullest. If they feel that they
haven’t done much during their life, it’s likely that they will experience a
sense of despair.